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Thursday, February 26, 2015

Let it Go

In January, 2015, I put the following prompt up for potential guest bloggers:
Write about why you come to the studio, what happens in your class(s), what you ate for breakfast - whatever you want that you can tie in to the studio doings.
The In Their Words posts share the contributions of the women who answered that call, in their words, without edits.  Enjoy!

Let It Go by Rebecca Sturgeon

I danced today.  There was a time not too long ago when I wondered if that would ever happen again.  But a little over a year ago, I started taking bellydance classes at Hip Circle Studio, and discovered a love for this art form that has enriched my creative life.  

But the most profound thing is the love I discovered for something truly precious — my physical self.  I danced today and almost without thinking, my body made shapes and moving sculptures in the air that were lovely to look at.  I know — I have the video to prove it.  I danced today and when I watched the video to learn from it, I thought about the dance, not about how my belly looked or whether or not I had a muffin top in this outfit.  I danced today and I loved my bones and muscles for all things I have trained them to do.  I loved the length and space I could take up with my arms, and the smile I could see on my face.  I loved the heart that beat faster with every spin and jump.  

A while back, I spent time with Malik learning how to engage my glute muscles for hip shimmies.  We practiced for almost an hour — squeeze, release, squeeze release.  At one point Malik said something like, “The release is just as important as the squeeze.  You need to let go all the way.”  Later, I realized how much that little idea meant to everything.  

In this practice of dance and this learning, I could finally let go all the way.  I could let go of all the negative body image and self talk that kept me small and hiding.  And when I let go all the way, new things rushed in to lift me up.  I danced today and I let go all the way of the doubt that I was not good enough or trained enough or thin enough or pretty enough.  What rushed in was confidence, joy and some badass looking crossover turns.  

I danced today, I am going to dance tomorrow, and every day to follow for a very long time.  Every day I am looking forward to letting go, all the way, to see what rushes in.

Rebecca Sturgeon writes more about being a grown up woman in a strange new world at her blog,goingmapless.blogspot.com.  

Thursday, February 5, 2015

Achievaloutions - January 2015


I added a jar to each classroom on our first day of classes in January and declared them our Achievaloutions Jars.  
Students and visitors are encouraged to add notecards with their Achievaloutions (things they feel good about having done) throughout each month.  


This series will share all of the Acheivaloutions in hopes of inspiring you to do good things AND notice them when you do!


January 2015:
  1. "I am doing chores at home." - Augusta
  2. "I had my first (and not last) kale smoothie today before I came to class." - Sara
  3. "First class post-foot-surgery. - DONE!" - Debi
  4. "I learned to bellydance." - Lilia
  5. "I got strait As." - Anonymous
  6. "Did a back-bendy yoga class without getting queasy." - Anonymous
  7. "Took care of my beta fish." - Anonymous
  8. "I've been healthy." - Alice
  9. "12 days without sugar." - Anonymous
  10. "I made time to work out 4 days in a row." - Donna S.
  11. "Did a gajillion hamstring curls." - Anonymous
  12. "I made a goal pyramid." - Donna S. 
  13. "Planned quarterly business goals for 2015." - Margaret O. 
  14. "I studied for a test." - Anonymous
  15. "I did a headstand unassisted tonight.  Twice!" -Rachel
  16. "I finished a big project at work." - Anonymous
  17. "I got to dance with my mom for the first time in a while.  It was really great and fun.  I missed those kinds of moments." - Mia A.
  18. "I got a 96% on a test." - Anonymous
  19. "Becoming very comfortable in my improv, seeing it as having organized parts - even when I don't know the music." - Nancy C.
  20. "Came to 8:15 am Moxie Boxing on Sunday!" - Anonymous
  21. "Completing my 1 year anniversary with FHCC VA job I so love!" - Deb
  22. "I love bellydancing!!!!!!!" - Posie
  23. "Spoke up about/to someone being inconsiderate." -Rebecca
  24. "Finished my class plan & syllabus." - Anonymous
  25. "I sang row row row your boat in a opera voice." - Anonymous
  26. "Last week I made 21 calls for singing gigs!" - Roberta M.
  27. "Purged and sorted all my hard copy files at home - got rid of tons of paper." - Catherine M.
  28. "I completed learning the first Aliyah for my Bat Mitzvah." - Ronni L.
  29. "I gave my fries to a homeless man instead of eating them!" - Anonymous
  30. "Took beach photos every day this week!" - Margaret O.
  31. "Did speed bag with 3s(!!!)" - Anonymous
  32. "Woke up & came to 8:15 am Moxie Boxing after a late night out." - Mara J.
  33. "I got my hair pink." - Anonymous
  34. "I told my story in front of half the school." - Sammi
  35. "I started the year off right with dancing with my daughter." - Sara Jane A. 
  36. "Nora and I choreographed an entire song! Yay!" - Ronni L.
  37. "Got the new green card in the mail before February expiration.  :)" - Maike
  38. "Untangled a blue hip scarf!  :-)" - Anonymous
  39. "I tried bellydancing.  :-)" - Meg
  40. "I resolved a 5 month internet issue, and I finally have working internet at home.  It was a huge battle and I feel like I achieved something great!" - Anonymous
  41. "Launched my study/on-line survey." - Anonymous
  42. "Did hundreds with toe touches in Pilates today - Woot!" - Anonymous
  43. "Survived the first day of midterms." - Anonymous
  44. "I booked myself a gig! (with no assistant & didn't get too mixed up)" - Roberta M.
  45. "Exercise classes two days in a row." - Mara J.
  46. "I finished 3 books in two weeks." - Sammi L.
  47. "I checked out library books." - Anonymous
  48. "Getting sales tax filed. :-)" - Maike
  49. "I quit eating sugar!" - Margaret O.
  50. "Making regular time to exercise even when it seems I am too busy." - Anonymous
  51. "I conquered my fear of sleeping...in my dad's bed." - Anonymous
  52. "Awesome insightful brainstorming with the WBEW group today." - Maike
  53. "I baked 24 donuts and didn't eat one before class." - Anonymous
  54. "Potty trained my daughter in a day." - Kristin M.
  55. "My achievement I accept who I am!" - Anonymous
  56. "I came here despite being so tired." - Anonymous
  57. "Committed to fitness for 2015 in the coldest week of the year thus far." - Anonymous
  58. "I've exercised every other day for the past 10 days!" - Jacqueline
  59. "Getting my financial rear in gear (retirement planning)" - MVW
  60. "I loved coming to class with my daughter - seeing her smile & enjoy movement is an achievement." - Anonymous
  61. "I sang Happy Birthday in an opera voice." - Anonymous
  62. "Performed and did an art show on the same night." - Roberta M.
  63. "I took my first belllydance class." - Augusta
  64. "I took my first bellydance class. (and loved it!)" - Sara
  65. "I did a cartwheel in gymnastics class." - Miriam S.
  66. "I rock at belly dancing." - Alice G.
  67. "Started FUSEDChicago presidency. :)" - Maike
  68. "There classes this week!  Woot!" - Anonymous
  69. "I learned two songs in a day." - Anonymous
  70. "Feeling grateful I was relaxed in my morning school process." - SJ
  71. "I got nominated to go to Washington DC and learn to be a better leader for 6 days by myself." - Ronni
  72. "Got a B on Geometry Midterms!" - Anonymous
  73. "Went to the MS neurologist who congratulated me 2X!  For being in good control from working out." - Roberta M.
  74. "I cleaned my room today." - Miriam
  75. "I took advice from my mother to help me with a bully." - Anonymous
  76. "Sold a painting Friday." - Roberta M.
  77. "I learned some bellydancing!" - Lucia
  78. "Finished 3 work projects before long weekend." -Mara J.
  79. "I did yoga at home with the kids on our cold weather day." - Hannah
  80. "Boosted productivity using the 52/17 technique." - Malik
Look at all the AWESOME we've done this month!  Way to go, Studio Community!  I'm looking forward to February!

Thursday, January 29, 2015

Mama-Oxygen

In January, 2015, I put the following prompt up for potential guest bloggers:
Write about why you come to the studio, what happens in your class(s), what you ate for breakfast - whatever you want that you can tie in to the studio doings.
The In Their Words posts share the contributions of the women who answered that call, in their words, without edits.  Enjoy!

Wednesday, January 7, 2015

You Are Awesome, even in January

You are awesome.

Just the way you are.

You are awesome.

Here's the thing...until you lock into that idea (you are awesome) all the other stuff doesn't matter one stinking bit.  

Some things to consider instead...


...celebrate your successes, all of them, out loud.  Sharing the positive thoughts will help you feel good about the you YOU ARE RIGHT NOW.  We're doing this all year with our Achievealoutions Jars.

....compliment yourself for something at least once a day.  We do this after our brief improvisation exercise in all of our bellydance classes at the studio.  It feels good in the moment and sinks in over time.

...surround yourself with others who are (or are willing to be) happy with themselves and non-judgmental of the people around them.  Positivity is contagious - work that to your advantage!

Bottom line: let yourself be happy with yourself!  Yep - I'm giving you permission (not that you need my permission, but, you know, it's here for you all the same) to like you, right now, even though it's January and that apparently means it's time for us all to go on a self-loathing spree.  

I want you to be happy.  I want you to be healthy.  I want you to be well.  But most of all...

I want you to know that you're already awesome.

Thursday, October 30, 2014

What to Wear to your next class - SHOES


I get this question fairly often - "I want to come to ____ class, what should I wear?" - so I thought I'd address it here.

WEAR WHAT MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD and doesn't interfere with your workout.  Spend more time thinking about your footwear than the rest of your attire.  So, what does that mean?

Your feet are super important and are your first connection point to the earth/ground/floor pretty much all the time.  The kind of class you're going to will dictate what you should have on your feet, and this really is the most important decision you're going to make in getting ready for class.  I'll start bare and go up from there:


Bare Feet: Going without shoes is perfect for Bellydance, Pilates, and Yoga, for different reasons.  In bellydance, your entire foot is needed to make the magic happen so having access to and awareness of your toes, ball of foot, and heel is essential.  In yoga & Pilates you spend most of your time on the mat, again with awareness of the whole foot, so having your feet bare keeps you from slipping and sliding.  Oh, and YOUR TOENAILS DON'T MATTER, so come to class even if it's been ages since your last pedicure - I promise, our teachers don't care (and may be ages from their last pedicure, too). If your feet run cold you may want to bring a pair of socks into the classroom for shavasana/bliss time.

A note about Grippy Socks: If you really don't want bare feet for whatever reason, grippy socks like the ones from Rock These Socks may work for you.


Tennis/smooth soled "gym" Shoes: Referring to *actual* tennis shoes, these are great for Zumba.  You do a lot of twisting and turning in this class, so having a shoe that will move with you is really important.  Running shoes or anything with a lot of tread/traction is NOT a good fit because the shoe is designed to stay put.  That's awesome when you're out running but if your shoe stays put and your ankle moves you're can end up with an injury.  Tennis shoes, Dance Fitness shoes - anything with a nice smooth sole will be your Zumba friend but they're best reserved for indoor use only.  Their lack of tread can make them wear down really quickly if you use them outside.

Cross-Trainer "gym" Shoes: Wear these to Kettlebell AMPD, Moxie Boxing, and Circuit because they offer you a lot of support.  Since we're not doing all the twisting that happens in Zumba the tread/grip isn't a problem, and these shoes tend to have a bit more shock absorption which is nice when we do burpies and jumping jacks.  These can be worn indoors and out, but bringing your workout shoes and changing when you arrive will keep them in good shape for longer.

Running Shoes: You guessed it - these are great for running!  They can also be used for walking and tend to last longer since they're designed for outdoor use (and beagles love them).


What do I wear?

I have a high-quality pair of "studio shoes" - they have a pivot point under the ball
of the foot, good ankle support, and a minimal amount of tread.  I am able to wear them for all of the classes I teach that require shoes (Zumba, Ketllebell AMPD, Moxie Boxing, Circuit).  When I teach Pilates and Bellydance my feet are bare (my favorite).

One general note about shoes and studio-based fitness classes.  It is highly recommended that you keep your fitness shoes as fitness shoes.  Bring them with you and change at the studio, reserve them for use in your classes.  This will help you make fewer trips to the shoe store and will keep you safer from injury.  How?  All the little things you can pick up in your shoes (especially those with tread) can change how they function under your feet and leave you at risk for slipping, sliding, and twisting when you're not expecting it.  As the weather changes this is an issue, too - wet shoes slip WAY more than you think!

I promise my next "What to Wear" post will be about the rest of your outfit, but shoes needed a post all their own.

Tuesday, October 14, 2014

Victorious

This is what it looks like to be victorious at Hip Circle Studio:


Daina, pictured above, first came to the studio for knitting.  Well, she brought her daughter to knitting. A few months later she came to the studio again for bellydance & yoga.  Well, she brought her other daughter to bellydance & yoga.  When she decided to come to the studio for herself Daina felt like she needed to ease into things after years of just getting through the day not really focusing on her health/fitness/wellness.  She began with our 30-minute classes, convinced that she'd stay there for the long term since a full-length 60-minute class was going to be too much.  30-minute Circuit & Exercise Ball were her go-tos. That was then...

Fast-forward to today...Daina is at the studio 5 days a week.  She does Moxie Boxing, Kettlebell AMPD, Curvy Yoga, and Pilates Mat.  All full-length classes.

But that's not why or how she's victorious.  

She tackled a new-to-the-studio class in June - Kettlebell AMPD - and started with a 5-kb kettle bell (the one under her foot in the picture).  This photo was taken almost 3 months to the day after her first class.  See that weight she's holding?  It's an 8-lb kettle bell.  That smile on her face?  Pure joy at having a clear representation of the strength she's building and the progress she's made in a single season, AND the overall progress she's made in terms of becoming an active, healthy woman.

I should have taken a selfie that day, because my smile was pretty darn similar.

Wednesday, August 27, 2014

Unspoken

I made a pledge on 7/21 (the day after my 43rd birthday, coincidentally) to refrain from saying negative things about other people with some of my 8 Elements family. Being something of an overachiever, I extended that pledge to include myself. The initial pledge was to go through the end of 2014 though my intention is to allow this to become just a part of me. I thought, on the 21st, that this would be a piece of cake.

Yeah, it’s not. I’m finding it much easier to stay positive about others than to stay positive about myself. Why? Why isn’t it an automatic thing to give myself as much credit as the people around me? I know I’m not alone – there are probably millions of blog posts and magazine articles and self-help books that talk about how hard we are, especially women, on ourselves. I’ve been able to feel annoyance, even anger, with others and rewrite my narrative on the fly. “That person who darted out into traffic directly in front of my moving vehicle?  They must have somewhere really urgent to go, or they simply haven’t had the same experiences I’ve had with the power of motor vehicles..." instead of, well, you can imagine what my thoughts and words might have been before taking this pledge. When it comes to me? Not so easy.

I actually had something of a crisis of mind on day 4…I realized that, without negative things to say about myself, my internal dialog was silent. I’d ended up mute inside my head! Not a good feeling, and realizing that feeling this silence meant that I’d been running a non-stop negative dialog in my head before didn’t feel good, either. After a rough weekend I came up with a plan…I’d get a little notebook and write down positive things about myself when I thought of them so I’d have something to refer to when things got all silent in my head. 

 I’ve carried that notebook around with me ever since. I don’t have much in there, but the fact that it’s not empty feels good and reassuring, and going through that exercise has helped me land in a more comfortably positive place in my head. I’m still much better at being kind to the outside world, but I’ve maintained my pledge for more than a month now and don’t see myself turning back. I’ve had 2 hiccups of negativity but they’ve been short and did not cause any external harm. I’ve been able to find a slightly more comfortable space in my head when it comes to myself and have seen the difference reflected in my dancing and in my general confidence levels. I’m looking forward to seeing how much things have changed by December, too.


Will you take this pledge – even part of it? Look at this as part of your health & wellness plan. Working out your internal dialog generator might be just as important as building up cardiovascular fitness, don’t you think?